I am a man – a poem

I am alone No one cares about me, but me I must do it on my own, I am a man You don’t get me, and never will There’s a pain inside that you will never know, I am a man I am by myself, alone without support If I don’t do it, no one will, I am a man I don’t need help, I don’t want help Can’t ask for help, I am a man Hiding from the world, living in shadow Don’t see me, I am a man If I wanted help, you wouldn’t give it Don’t know how to...

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Confessions of a Porn Zombie

by Kevin Behan “Poooooooooorrrrrrn . . . . . Pooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrnnnn ….. Porrrnnnnnnnn ….” . . . I grunted as my lifeless corpse limped closer to what it needed most. Shuffling, slow, and primal I fixed my gaze on the “food” glowing off my computer screen, . . . calling me . . . I called back, “poooorrrrrrrnnnn.” Now sweating, my heart beating faster then it did all day all day, I knew relief was coming, that I would feel again....

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Is The Process of Becoming a Do It Yourself Project?
May22

Is The Process of Becoming a Do It Yourself Project?

by Pedro Serrano My first memorable experience with cognitive dissonance came after reading a quote attributed to Nelson Mandela: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” Something about that seemed weird to me. South Africans fearful of their power? They lived in a society where institutionalized racism was defended by millions, and where people, White and...

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Trusting Men

by G. Kamana Hunter “I just don’t trust men in general,” she said. “They’ve hurt me and disappointed me too many times.” “As a man, I thank you for trusting me enough to admit that,” I replied calmly to my client. “I don’t mean you. I mean…well, you’re different,” she said nervously, afraid that she may have offended a supportive man. “It’s ok. We’re talking about you right now. How am I...

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Emotions

Emotions. Empowering men to achieve our own emotional literacy is at the core of our work in the ManKind Project. So it follows that anyone doing research into just exactly what emotions are is someone whose work we will probably want to check out. The video on the page below, Categorizing Emotions, does just that, lending a psychological perspective to emotions as they are perceived in a multicultural context. The MKP Journal is...

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Opening Up Like a Man
May08

Opening Up Like a Man

by Matthew Alexander Sloane In a past relationship I got some feedback on the way I came across to my partner as a 30 year-old, powerless child. At the time, I thought I was being vulnerable and sharing openly about my feelings. She told me something I will never forget. “I have no problem with you telling me when you’re going through a hard time,” she said. “It’s just that you sound like a child when...

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