On the Impacts of Pornography
An in depth conversation about pornography with Joerg Calvis of the ManKind Project Germany, founder of the ‘Open Green Heart’ (https://humanmankind.com/) problem, and Gary Wilson, author, researcher, and creator of the site ‘Your Brain On Porn’ (http://yourbrainonporn.com). In this conversation we explore: the ‘old’ porn vs. the ‘new’ porn voyeurism vs agency novelty, repetition, and...
Asking for What I Want – guest post from Erin Brandt
I want women to fight for men.
And I want men to fight for women.
So that NEITHER lets the other be put down, made fun of, or disrespected.
Being a Sexually Authentic, Conscious and Empowered Man
Galen Fous talks about his experience bringing authenticity and consciousness to men’s sexual lives.
Women in Men’s Groups?
(or) Why Men’s Groups Need Women Guest post by Erin Brandt Bottom Line: Because AFTER men get tremendously powerful support from other men in digging through their deepest shit and celebrating their biggest wins, what’s crucial is practicing integrating your new skills… directly with women… – *with* the support and guidance of your brothers – with women specially chosen because of their love of, respect of and skill with...
Slow Way, Way Down for Extraordinary Intimacy
– – – See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World – – – As I write this I’m sitting in an airport on my way to give a TEDx talk titled: Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shutdown World. One of the central themes of my talk is how, as a fully impotent prostate cancer survivor, I have slowed way, way down for my female partner and what doors to truly...
Presence vs. Performance in the Pursuit of Extraordinary Intimacy
The obsession with male performance in the bedroom is a misguided intimacy killer and here’s what you can do about it. – – – See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World – – – Conventional wisdom tells us that great performance in the bedroom means you’re more of a man. The main thing to remember is that women want a guy who can go at it for hours...