Sex, Lies and Menopause
Jun20

Sex, Lies and Menopause

When your partner uses menopause as the reason for diminished desire consider it your wake up call to something more serious… – – – See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World – – – I recently visited a dear friend of mine in the mid-West. On all outward appearances he is happily married with two incredible teenage children and an attractive wife in her early 40’s. For fun I gave him some of my...

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How to Find “The One” and Never Settle For Less
Jun13

How to Find “The One” and Never Settle For Less

Most people settle when choosing a mate and end up living to regret it –fortunately this is completely avoidable… – – – See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World – – – In terms of finding your “perfect” mate, let me break the news to you, there is no such thing. At least not on this planet. No one is perfect, everyone has flaws. With that said however, it IS very possible to find “The One”; a...

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Why Ego and Intimacy are Strange Bedfellows
Jun06

Why Ego and Intimacy are Strange Bedfellows

When it comes to romantic relationships, the ego is like the moon: romantic, literally necessary for our survival and has the ability to drive us temporarily crazy on a periodic basis. When you allow your ego to be the main driver of your relationship it will cause it to crash every time, sooner or later. While we can’t escape having an ego we can learn to live with it and even leverage it (appropriately) to achieve deep, connecting...

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Why Half a Heart is Simply Not Enough
May30

Why Half a Heart is Simply Not Enough

– – – See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World – – – Until four years ago, I had a serious issue with literally one-half of the entire human species – specifically… men. I didn’t feel comfortable being around them and never felt like I really “fit in” or was accepted by them. In essence, when it came to other men I just shut down and encased myself in...

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The Art and Power of Presence
May23

The Art and Power of Presence

– – – See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World – – – What I’m about to share with you is a proven and almost magically powerful way to instantly (no hype here) change the way people see you. And once you learn and consistently incorporate this insight, people can’t help but be magnetically attracted to you. Imagine what this will do for your...

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