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类别: 男人和使命
社会共享计数器

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贡萨洛·萨利纳斯是一个助理编辑的人类工程杂志,刊物的人类工程,一个非盈利性的辅导和培训机构在人生的任何阶段,为男性的个人成长强大的机会。 萨利纳斯文学研究在秘鲁首都利马的圣马科斯大学,并一直住在美国自2003年以来,他居住在佛罗里达州迈阿密。 萨利纳斯致力于他自己的个人发展,并传播有关的愿景和使命的话,人类工程

旧信件,居住功能强大的教训

分类: 访谈男人和父母评论
社会共享计数器

好人

好人


编者按由百胜霍奇森巴里·弗里德曼发邮件给我,告诉我,我必须得到这本书, 遗产信件由卡鲁Papritz后,立即读取它。 他觉得这是一个重要的书,新的战士,一本书,说我们的价值观作为自觉的人,并采取行动,现在,以确保据说我们不得不说的重要的事情的重要性。

笔者建议,巴里获得与卡鲁联系,并伸出手来进行连接......和往常一样...巴里跳下权和过度的行为准则......组建一个伟大的采访卡鲁包括一个特殊的阅读通过一个特别尖锐的部分,他的儿子书。

这是一个震撼人心的故事,充满智慧,难怪,感恩和祝福。 听采访,请阅读下面的摘录-和订购自己这个令人难以置信的书的副本 卡鲁肯定会成为一个大的名字。 他已经在路上做新书签售全国各地上。

采访巴里·弗里德曼

点击的采访。

从信中摘录:在我的男孩成为男人

为人类工程

从传统书信卡鲁Papritz)

我的儿子,

当你的爸爸,我有这么多的告诉你,以显示这是什么意思,成为一个男人你。 试图回答所有关于当天的奥秘和奇迹与精度,简单和清晰完美的爸爸,给你的搭配好奇的男孩的问题。 看着你跌倒,站,然后再次下跌,所有的男孩都必须做这样的凶猛和如履薄冰,偶尔接你,但不要过于频繁。 带领你度过漫长的火是我的儿子成为一个男人的洗礼。 不知何故,我必须通过我的话的死亡率做了这一切。

按你妈妈的风度和亲近,你姐姐会学习妈妈的智慧。 在这种或那种方式,我的儿子,我必须找到一种方法,在你身边。 飞过的内存和时间了大规模的峡谷,与所有的力量,清晰度希望和爱,我可以forgather作为你的父亲,我希望这些话会明智地引导你走向有一天成为自己的男人。

不知怎的,我的儿子,我们惊人的欲望现在未来,我们得到了它到我们的头上,像按下一个按钮或拨一个号码,成为一个男人很容易。 只是吞噬几十人,成为英雄的电影,回升快看车,让出一个男生或女生,口袋里的几块钱,做任何你想要的,只要你想,简单。 其结果是,我们转出完美的人谁看起来像一个男人,说话像男人,甚至听起来像一个男人,但不知何故就像杰克鲱鱼比利男孩发育迟缓,在他的男子汉成熟的巅峰之作,冥冥中的荷尔蒙之间顶点12到23,谁没有想,倾斜或动机,以赚取他的条纹,成为一个成熟的,长大了,思想,体贴,好男人。 现在,我不是说你要成为教皇的童子军和约翰·韦恩的muleskinner,但如果你不是在学习或希望有一天能成为一个男人,那么你永远练仍然是一个男孩。

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所以,当你成为一个男人,我的儿子?

你周围的降压赤裸在旷野一周运行,等待三只乌鸦在牛市麋鹿骑无鞍的太阳升起了一些神的愿景成为一个男人? 你通过发动战争来棍棒,射击,刺刀,或羊肉,kabob个沉默寡言的孩子自己的年龄在另一边谁也想发动战争会让他一个人成为一个男人? 你成为一个男人的引擎盖下souping了最新的雪佛兰有327和鞭打差一些草皮在午夜的街头拖?

不,你成了当你第一次决定要放好童年的事,童年的话题,和童年的想法的人。 你决定,因为你不能被视为两个男人和一个男孩。 因为你不是一个或另一个,但你不能同时使用。 而且这不会不管你的年龄,你可以是一个孩子在15或40。 只有当你作为一个男孩决定你做了等你想开始是想成为男人的男人,你首先要成为一个男人。

当你成为一个男人?

当你成为你自己的男人。

当其他人相信你做男人的工作。 相信你用他们的名字,他们的声誉,他们的想法。 相信你看他们的背影,信任你与他们的生活。

要成为一个男人是搞你的话,因为你给了你的话。 和你的字是你作为一个男人。

你成为一个男人,你明白责任是一个真正的和重要的承诺,对自己和他人,而不是一些懒惰的狗的那一刻,所有同意咕噜。

成为一个人指做正确的事情,即使它可能很难或困难。 男孩做的是最简单的。 一个人做什么是正确的,无论是简单的还是不行。

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而且你应该是什么类型的男人,我的儿子?

一个好人。 最重要的是,努力做一个好人。

而你不会成为一个好人过夜。 就像一个大的,坚实的道格拉斯冷杉,你必须学会​​承受风,雨,闪电,太阳,甚至火一年的所有方式一年后一年后,仍巍然屹立,真实。

一个好男人,在你爸爸的书,是一个伟大的人。 一个谁一直努力成为最优秀的人,对自己和他人。 因为世界上不可能有足够的好男人。

是什么让一个好人,我的儿子。

好男人是公平的。 在这两种你的话,你的行动。

当你承认自己的错误。 然后正确的,错误的。

一个很好的人知道什么时候他一直自卑,并从他的谦卑学习。

作为一个优秀的男人是指用真诚说话,喜欢和肯定。

一个好人会尝试通过思考,然后再行事明智行事。

好男儿道出了实情。

好男儿生活的欢乐生活和活着,而不是束缚未来的希望或过去的遗憾的幸福。

一个好人捍卫那些不能为自己辩护。

和良好的人知道身为一个男人,知道从雍容下跌的难度总是近在咫尺,并因此一直在努力使自己成为一个更好的人。

正如我很快长大,我的儿子,我看到了成为一个男人和做人是最终真正在同一个和测试,并在测试永远不会结束。 我知道,在我父亲心脏,而在所有其他地方我不能去,在这一刻,我相信你用我全部的爱,甚至随着时间的现在在我面前消失。 我知道总有一天你会成为一个男人让你的爸爸感到骄傲,自己的男人。 步行忠于自己的信念,承载你的名字自豪,永远忠诚于一个勇敢的心脏,并相信这是一个很好的人,这辈子是一个伟大的事业。 而在那一天,我会以某种方式与你同在。 不知何故,我会是你的父亲。 我爱你。

爸爸

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这对双胞胎兄弟,马双城

类别:
社会共享计数器

丽贝卡

这对双胞胎兄弟,马双城

该Ashvino
马双城
这对双胞胎兄弟
高大,强壮,
长长的黑发流
它们是Ashvino
打电话给你的兄弟,
他们将带领你对你的方式。

没有人知道那里的Ashvino双城生活。
他们让参观的村庄
当他们自由徜徉。
当他们进入一个小镇,
孩子们是第一个知道。
他们继续他们的小脚丫跑
淅沥,笑,高兴地蔓延。
该Ashvino双胞胎,
轻轻地泛着光亮如午后的阳光,
棕色眼睛明亮,
他们一起玩,一起笑他们。
他们接孩子到自己的肩膀上,并追究他们紧张。
他们说真实的话给他们,
跟他们说话,
从来没有在他们之上或之下他们,
当孩子们总是希望被喊来。
世界各地的儿童给他们打电话,
我们的大哥哥。

他们进入家庭
在下午晚些时候
当太阳高,黄金,
当妇女烤面包
与制作晚饭。
女人总是欢迎他们
因为他们知道Ashvino的。
他们爱他们,
在与丈夫不同的方式,
在比他们的儿子不同的方式。
该Ashvino带小孩他们。
他们带来一个安静,快乐强烈,持续时间长。
他们离开后,
在土墙讲多久,他们都走了之后,
深深的震动,
舒缓,说事情的话可以不说话。
另外,在Ashvino坐在一所房子,
病会不会提出
而长,持久的幸福的运气会来的。
这对双胞胎兄弟带来温暖,充实,深深的和平。
他们带来了财富,金钱和财富
永远无法带来。
女人知道这一点。
他们了解Ashvino
他们知道双胞胎。
这就是为什么
女人总是乐意让这对双胞胎兄弟英寸

没有人知道那里的Ashvino的家。
当他们经过一个村庄通,
他们走过去的郊区
伸到起伏的平原,
和两个兄弟
变成马。
他们自由奔跑的草,
在世界的宽阔。
在雷雨天气,
他们陶醉在雨中冲击
它们的蹄子像雷霆
而他们的速度是闪电。
其黑色的鬃毛是风。

在他们的尸体上运行一匹马的力量。
他们知道这是什么感觉就像是猎物
但他们有一个良好的人力国王的心。
他们已经感到恐惧的尖峰自己的身体,
他们是为horses-敏感
他们是因为它的温柔。
他们知道敏感的自信
是不是胆小kindness-好
他们知道没有它,
赫德陷入恐惧和冲突。
他们知道它是什么是一个食肉动物,
而作为男人他们只动物在地球上
有一个关于它的选择。
他们是一匹马和一名男子于一体,
两全其美。
它们是Ashvino。

女人总是爱他们。
但想想他们是什么人
取决于人。
一个嫉妒的人说,
“滚出我的房子! 停止与我的女人搞乱!“
一个不安全的人看到了双胞胎的轻松,温暖的信心,
,感觉空。
à男人谁认为自己强,
但只有让实力的图像在外面,法官说:
“他们是不是真正的强者。 他们太温柔,太不厚道了。“

但是,一个人谁努力成为自由,野性,善良,坚强,
在他们之后他的心脏渴望
从深藏在他的灵魂。
他希望能像他们一样。
他想自由奔跑像他们一样。
他要坚强像他们一样。
他想成为那种像他们一样。

打电话给Ashvino
和马双城会跑
比闪电更快
隆隆深又长的像打雷的地球
随着午后阳光的温暖轻松,
与马的心脏
和一个男人的心,
他们会来
当你的兄弟
带领你
在路上,你渴望去。

丽贝卡是一个女人谁衷心支持男士运动。 对她的话:“我们需要它现在比以往任何时候都更。 我深入到荣格的研究,我每天都努力的生活负责,全面的,有意识的生命。 我写这片在男性和女性的旅程相交的地方。 我们经常做同样的事情在我们的内心生活,但看着它从稍微不同的角度。 该Ashvino马双胞胎,我想带活到我们的世界又是一个古老的印欧语的传统。“

所有/你/我的一首诗

类别:
社会共享计数器

由戴维·克劳斯

所有/你/ I

不给我一个间距
不要告诉我一个故事
不要为我服务天上掉馅饼

跟我说实话

暗部
硬盘部分
不希望被告知的部分,即从太阳隐藏份
(露齿的小东西,饿了血,渴望爱情,饿,饿了...)

告诉我悲伤的地方,在那里你害怕的地方,真的很害怕。 被困在琥珀。

告诉我的地方,当你放弃了,就放弃了,
因为你累了,这是太多

你想的部件是不同的

我想看到的阴影。

我想看到他们,大胆而有弹性的,若隐若现,半透明。

反式/朗讯

因为那些阴影背后,是一颗耀眼的光
虽然我不能直视它(像太阳,你懂的)

我知道你

我觉得圣光照耀通过

我觉得它那里,它温暖了我,我很安全,
并把它添加到我的光:

用你的光我的影子

褪色,

了一下,

忽隐忽现,

沉思。

我想看到的阴影,因为在他们里面我看到了你的休息,

在他们里面我看到了你的全部。

在他们里面

I /所有/你。

我没有退出策略,没有计划的大门,心中没有退路

我在这里。 与你。

我没有理由怀疑,
无合理疑点
(好几个,也许,少数,更重要的是,OK呀,我有疑惑)

但毫无疑问,我/你可以拿着我/你得到了,

因为我/你是大和I /你包含众人

I /你

我有一个愿意暂停难以置信,愿意为-lieve

我有信心,踹水超过50,000噚,

头上面居多,

但并非总是如此,有时根据

我们会踏在一起,我会刷从你的眼睛湿漉漉的头发。

而当其时,我会拖你的额头,
我会与你坐下,

刚坐下,

和握住你的手,

I /你。

只有这么多呼吸。

只有这么多。

所以不要给我一个间距。
不要告诉我一个故事。
不要为我天上的馅饼。

我想在座的各位。

I /所有/你

所有

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戴夫·克劳斯完成了新战士训练的冒险在2010年6月在NorCal中心,从那时起事情变得更好,更适合他。 他在阿拉米达县公设辩护人办公室,在过去的17年中,他曾代表数千客户的情况下,从小偷小摸到特殊情况谋杀一名高级主管。 他已婚,有两个孩子真棒。 在业余时间,他领导着一个大的火人营地( www.bEEcHARGE.com ),并启动一个先进集体。 这是他第一次完成的诗。

从伤口愈合

类别:
社会共享计数器

由迈克尔·Kullik

从伤口愈合

受伤的孩子

哭泣的角落

几年间失去了

哭了出来默默地
没有人来
没有人听到

沉默的监狱
围绕着我,
到早期的墓葬。

我该如何开始
呼吸一次?
我是某人的奴隶?

一个受伤的孩子
长,象
一个受伤的人。

伤口变成我的剑。
如钢,
我再强,哦,我的上帝。

一个受伤的人坐在
哭迷失
在他多年。

沉默终于被打破
破碎的伤口转身
大哭的河。

愤怒之剑打破了我,
正如我大喊
尖叫起来,吼道。

监狱不
煤矿在最后
它是你的。

迈克尔Kullik是一名教师,教授,歌手,出版诗人。 他首次出版于2000年在一本由吉尔·库恩编辑称为“客舱六”。 他经营的写作和击鼓工作坊和务虚的abuse.He男性幸存者也自告奋勇他的时间运行一组幸存者1999至2004年。

达拉斯首席鹰-拉科塔的人类工程

社会共享计数器

“MKP已被证明是我们最有效的盟友在消除种族屠杀以来,塞恩要拉科塔150年前。”〜达拉斯首席鹰

达拉斯首席鹰

达拉斯首席鹰

兄弟,

达拉斯首席鹰上周祝福我们的聚会。

他宣称,经过100多年的无盟友,拉科塔现在的盟友。

我们的(中原)人类工程的人,是那些盟友。

当他分享了与这个圈子,我仿佛觉得车顶裂开,光束充满了整个房间,和心灵都敞开。 在宇宙中发生移位。

之后没有盟友一个世纪,现在是盟友。

我希望我们每个人看看达拉斯的深刻洞察。 这是什么话,盟友对你意味着什么?
谁是你的盟友? 你/我们需要什么样的联盟做什么呢?

怎么可能我们的世界转变,如果我们看到了这个世界的方式 - 潜在的盟友和联盟的世界?

我知道我永远不会是相同的。

感谢达拉斯说他的真理。

感谢史蒂夫拉姆调用中原的这次聚会,所以我们可以通过圈子的力量在共同的事业连接。

检查的谦卑和深感荣幸成为男人这个宏伟的社区的一部分,

丹·皮考特

在人类工程会员

编者按:

有新战士拉科塔男子的松树岭预订谁现在持有使NWTA​​到松树岭的意图越来越多的社区。 MKP科罗拉多州,MKP中原,和美国的人类工程,通过MKP美国多元化奖学基金 ,提供财政和后勤支持,帮助拉科塔人出席NWTA。

关于男人的社会对保留的角色的详细信息,请参阅本故事: 原生Sun新闻:男子Oyate -从痛苦中走出来疗伤

公司宗旨:只要说是的。

类别: 男人和使命
社会共享计数器

斯蒂芬火煮

麻省理工学院语言学教授讲授了他的课。 “在英语中,”他说,“双重否定构成利好。 然而,在一些语言,如俄语,双重否定仍然是负面的。 但是,没有一个单一的语言,而不是一个,其中双正可以表达负面“。从房间后面一个声音尖着嗓子,”是的,没错。“

我把我的生命强化后面的墙上号的相当一部分,从我的灵魂伸出像从豪猪刺。 即使我不说出来,人们可以感受到号从我竖着当我走进一个房间。 没有,我太忙了。 不,我没有看到一个明确的利益的。 不,这并不完全一致足以与我的价值观。 不,我不想太消耗殆尽。 不,我不是合适人选了。 不,他可能会用美元来买裂缝。 不,我可能会说他妈的,如果我尝试过。 不,如果我帮她只想要更多。

当我走在大街上,运行的所有那些谁代表了世界的需求了战书,我能感觉到,这些刺有两点。 一个病房其他人了,我的辩护是从的风险。 另一点压到了我的灵魂,我的收紧,我的疤痕,干瘪了我。 我可以用我的孩子和家庭是我的借口 - 我救我的命能为那些在我眼前一圈,那些我爱你。 但我的痛苦的事实是,我没有了刺鬃在家里了。 不,我不能让这个游戏。 不,你不能熬夜。 不,我不能爱你,你想被人爱的方式。 不,我不能给你完整呈现。

几年前,南希·里根开始了她的著名说不运动,药物。 在此,我已经超额完成 - 我学会了在默认情况下只说不近一切:保险营销员,电话销售,是的。 但也有需要街上的人,我的狗,不熟悉的选项,我的孩子们,朋友们,新的经验,甚至我的合作伙伴丽贝卡。 我是通过生活中的干瘪的守财奴吝啬走抓着我的生命能量,在一分钱仔细少量发放出来,然后后悔,我给任何离开的。

其结果是,我住的生活退步了,我的道路更加确定了我的拒绝,避免比我肯定。 我留在作业更受我反驳并拒绝比我还热情地选择的可能性来确定。 关系的组装我最终的结果是更多的机会比选择,因为如果我们每个意外被逼到这个角落在一起。 í截肢的可能性所以经常是我最终我在哪里,在部分的生活,我没有选择与意图。

我不是在这里谈论的意识,热情, 没有强大的,我可能会使用像一把利剑。 这没有激情以后可以成为一个强大的是,更多的是一种不可缺少的一部分。 在这里,我说的是无程序启动时自动差不多,当我打开我的眼睛在早晨和运行在我的生活整天的背景。 我说的是没有,这是我的恐惧,羞耻,和不足的痕迹,这让我不准任何新的东西,从离家阻止我,那夹断的可能性,从大步走向危险阻止我,这株我的世界。 我说的是没有了,在名安全是无声的杀手,从生活和爱的热情阻止我。

一个是程序不是问题的答案。 在我看来,这可能是因为反射没有有毒。 是的,我会做的工作。 是的,我会资助,提高了团队,我会帮你搬钢琴,我会联合主席的委员会,我会重新草皮的草坪上,我会帮你移动fieldstones。 我变成唯唯诺诺,其中有敷衍的,我从来没有真正决定在哪里把我的精力。 然后我得到传播如此之薄,我不配合,不显示完全,或离开工作未完成。 或者我承担这么多,我成为了领先的雪橇犬,携带的全部重量,包括其他狗的重量。 我不相信其他人可以帮助,有时会带我。 或者,我把在比赛中每匹马的赌注,所以我从来没有真正输了,但从来没有真正获胜。 其结果是,没有形成以我的性格,没有人真正知道我是谁或者是我想要的。 我可能不知道我是谁或者是什么我想,无论是。

我的任务是一个强大的剑一直埋在我是谁的石头。

在亚瑟的故事,剑出来很容易,用手腕轻弹。 但是对于一些人来说,(我以为自己在这些)提取任务的剑是一个缓慢的过程,需要很多的耐心的工作和独创性。 一些炼金术士用自己的一生试图从暗物质提取贵重金属,使用数千种不同的流程。 但快或慢,如果我能拉这把宝剑出来,我的生活突然有一个点,我住在刀刃上。

形成了使命和生活就意味着说是自觉,热情,有承诺。 我知道我的目的,并可以朝它迈进。

一行禅师说,当一个开明的人看花,他也将通过花垃圾的花朵将成为看。 当他看着垃圾,他看起来通过垃圾可能最终从这些废物中成长的花朵。 剑有2个边。 在生活的使命,我说一个欢乐和激情是。 但在同一时间,我说没有的,它定义了我的方式。 剑是这是收敛的点号,并在结束时,神不知鬼不觉,这两个是一样的,所以,当我喊是,回声回来没有,当我喊号,回声是一个明确无误的是的。

Stephen Simmer

史蒂夫火煮,对于我们这些有幸认识他,住他的生命在不断流和任务主题之中。 适当的是,他的正式使命陈述的是,他的职业是心理治疗师“,鼓励男性与我有勇气做的一切,他们可以和将所有他们能做的。创造一个自由的世界”,他不断的给激发人积极寻找并参与在这个世界上自己的使命。 煨博士完成了新战士训练的冒险早在2001年,由于从来没有同一个男人。
要了解更多有关史蒂夫和他的作品,你可以访问他的网站

男子:从内部

类别: 男人和阴影男性长者
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游客发表:盖瑞Gilfoy

我最近要求提供专业发展上的一些议题治疗师男人的问题。“ 我离开了我儿子的足球比赛的话,发现约60人的聚会。 十左右的男性参加了坐在房间的外围。

我热起来读一首诗叫雨不知从何处被穆雷哈廷。 它讲述了一个男人与一个年轻的家庭。 我们抓到他,他打算结束自己的生命的那一天。 经过多年的干旱,他看不出有任何的方式来留住家庭农场。 就在同一天,他收到来自他的父亲告诉艰难的时刻,他已经对农场,有多么重要它是挂在那里,他的妻子和孩子对他的一封信。 一切都会好起来,保证了他的父亲。 这是一个令人心碎的诗句。 没有眼泪滚滚而下我的脸,我不能读它。 整个房间哭了我。 当我再一次由我自己,我问究竟是什么了感动他们的诗句。 那是,可以预见,在父子关系。

于是我就问大家简要考虑一些的话,他们会用来形容神。 然后,要考虑他们的父亲同样的问题。

我还没来得及去,一颗璀璨的火花开了口说神的描述和他们的父亲都是一样的。 其他人附和他们的同意。 一些扢女性接近前说了一些可爱的话,如“无条件的爱”,“接受”和“支持”我感谢这些妇女,提出了我的眼睛看向远方,说:“人”走出这倒 - “。?遥远,愤怒,不存在,判断“。对比是鲜明的。

我一直要求发言,以该组部分原因是因为我训练的治疗师自己,但也因为我共同主持定期的男人的周末。 他们是强大的事件 - 不喝酒或吸毒,没有专家讲下来的人,没有任何的理论,没有治疗,也没有倾诉的人。 我们开诚布公地对我们自己的生活经验发言。 我们欢迎沉默。 眼泪和欢笑都连声道谢。 在几个小时内,拥抱是家常便饭。 在周末结束时,我们做的肯定仪式上,我们每个人要说什么是我们看重对别人。 这是所有的最难的事情 - 被确认为我们带来给他人。

当这些事件开始,我们认为这是我们的责任,创建主题,引导周末。 我们不必打扰。 不管是什么,我们认为可能是有益的 - 关系,我们的工作生活,改变角色 - 一次又一次的话题回到了父子关系。

而且有些事情我发现这些年来重温这悲伤的取之不尽,用之不竭的井。 一次又一次,我被深深地受到这些勇敢的男人谁愿意说哭的,他们往往以前从来没有见过的人面前情绪。 我自己的父亲,早就死了,是在情感上最好的分离。 然而,他是不是暴力,不是不负责任,不酗酒,也没有情感虐待。 关于父亲的许多谈话是不是真的适合我,但他们发现了一个很深刻的共鸣之内我。 我开始认识到这一点,我们如何感受的原型。 这些故事去比此生我们的个人关系,我们的父亲更深。

有一个很深刻的父子原型的谎言在我们对自己的神的关系,或者更高的自我,或任何你认为对我们的一部分,需要拼命的闪耀,但这样往往不能根。 而不是父子之间的优势流行荣格的斗争中,我建议上级原型可以在圣经短语被发现,“这是我的爱子,我所喜悦的。”这是关于认可和接受。 与损害或忽视的是来自我们自己的父亲强烈与我们更高的自我这种关系反映出来。 我们深知,这不是它如何应该是。 在一定程度上,我们感受到光的巨大幸福在我们自身的核心,长的在我们的生活表达。 当我们努力,我们这样做对无条件的爱,我们感受到等待着我们的大背景下,却是从来没有完全实现。

通过我的演讲结束时,我觉得我必须申明很多女性治疗师在房间里。 他们努力用自己的男性顾客,并与许多男人在他们的私人生活。 我只能称赞他们为照顾这么多,继续尝试。 他们知道,男人是值得的,他们是否看到了这样或没有太多的证据。 女性经常通话的男子谁最终鼓起寻求帮助的勇气的第一个端口。 然而,到了最后,我觉得男人就不需要与其他人有意义的接触。 这是只有在这里,我们可以换购我们的神,我们的恶魔。

加里Gilfoy成长于加拿大,住在南澳大利亚。 他的正规教育,包括神学,教育,社会科学(辅导),目前在读博士研究生。 加里培训辅导员,又是一番景象作者:从精神世界的见解,有助于赫芬顿邮报和共同定期举办男性的周末。 他的网站是http://www.garrygilfoy.com

新战士训练的冒险:我的第一个工作人员

类别: 男人和启动
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由贡萨洛·萨利纳斯

几个星期前,我曾参与的工作人员在第一时间对新战士训练探险的机会。

我已经完成了佛罗里达州中部的我自己周末在2013年4月,我记得的感情在我的心脏就开始向右前。 恐惧,兴奋,愤怒,快乐,更多...每一刻是一个发现,我记得经历的每一种情绪,我曾经觉得在我的生活。

我有我的第一个工作人员类似的感受。 工作人员到达一天参加前,准备现场,让工作人员指示,并首次职员和我一样,看到了“幕后”周末。 我亲眼目睹了大量工作,近40其他人作为志愿者来帮助谁将会在周五(通常称为同修)有一个完美的体验的人被投入:男性服务,长老,认证领导小组,对酒店的团队,从人员加入他的天赋来完成的主要目标一般每一个成员:提供一组什么样的男人可以成为他们生活中最强大的周末之一。

这一次,我是一个在墙的另一边。 我的周末我发现和我的生活经历,但这次我更关心的每个人在我去前面低谷的过程。 东西,我不能回避,几乎立刻我开始深刻地照顾每个人经历的周末。

情人魔术师战士王 有关于为什么我感觉更深情地对我的工作人员的经验比我自己开始长老中有一位说到,他对我说了一个大大的笑容:

“现在你的服务是您的兄弟们的特权。”

一个接一个,只见男子突破。 理解问责制的重要性在他们的生活,怎么看每一个动作,不管多么小,对我们的家庭产生影响,对我们的社会,并在世界各地。 看到他们如何为自己制定了起来,并通过对被作为一个男人的新途径看到的方式。

在上周末结束后,开车回到南佛罗里达,与男人经历的过程记忆犹新,一想打我,我完全意识到发生了什么周末:

“周期已全面完成,”我想,“其他男人自愿做了同样的事情对我来说我的周末,现在我做一样的,所以其他人可以知道他们是完整的,整体的人,伟大的人,坚强和爱的人,可以在每一个行为行使权力和同情,爱和责任。 现在他们知道我才知道不到一年前。“

作家山姆敏锐的人在我的心脏共鸣的话:

“一个人必须去一个追求
探索神圣之火
在他自己的肚子的避难所,
点燃火焰在他的心脏
燃料在炉膛的火焰
重新点燃他的热情,为地球“

抵达劳德代尔堡后,我去了我女朋友的房子,

“你周末过得怎么样?”她说,高兴地看到我,给我最温柔的拥抱。

我抱着她心疼(长和非常强的拥抱),和词来自我的心脏:

“我的爱,这个周期已全面完成。”

她笑着继续拥抱我。 现在我可以回到“现实世界”满意,我已经见证了上周末的许多奇迹。

贡萨洛照片

贡萨洛·萨利纳斯是MKP杂志助理编辑,人类工程美国,一个非盈利性的指导和培训机构,提供了强大的机会,在人生的任何阶段,男性的个人成长。 萨利纳斯文学研究在秘鲁首都利马的圣马科斯大学,并一直住在美国自2003年以来他住在迈阿密,佛罗里达州,并致力于发展自己的组织和人类工程的消息的传播。

人最多-乔纳森·马丁,任贤齐微服私访和的“回力”的措施

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痞子 你强?

你如何衡量你的实力?

什么是武士文化的想法对你意味着什么?

那么美式足球的范畴内? 在我的时间,我已经站在了男人,我认为勇士队。 男人我在遇到人类工程和在它之外。 男人我认为强他们对我的信任和他们周围的人,他们站在漏洞和一个反光镜为我自己的选择能力。 I love this article for how it speaks to the complexity of what it means to be a man, and a warrior, in today's society.

I found “ Man Up – Declaring a war on warrior culture in the wake of the Miami Dolphins bullying scandal ” via Patton Oswalt's sharing of this article by Brian Phillips with his fans on Facebook. Share what you think in the comments.

http://www.grantland.com/story/_/id/9939308/richie-incognito-jonathan-martin-miami-dolphins-bullying-scandal

Alex Bender was initiated in Santa Barbara, CA in September 2007. He currently lives outside St. Paul, MN with his wife and their menagerie of cats and greyhounds. He sits on the local MKP Board as Vice President and works for growth in personal mission and community leadership.

Turning Weapons into Instruments

Category: Multicultural , Opinion
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Editors note: by Gonzalo Salinas

“I believe that the purpose of Art is to come up with ways to transform the most negative instincts, into creative instincts.” ~ Pedro Reyes, a Mexican artist who came up with the idea of transforming guns into musical instruments in a powerful project called “Disarm”.

In a previous installation, “Shovels for Guns,” the people in Culiacan, a violent city in Mexico, donated weapons and after melting them they created more than 1500 shovels used to reforest the city.

The project you'll see on the video is breathtaking. Faith in Humanity: Restored.

Gonzalo photo

Gonzalo Salinas is an Assistant Editor for the ManKind Project Journal, a publication of the ManKind Project, a nonprofit mentoring and training organization offering powerful opportunities for men's personal growth at any stage of life. Salinas studied Literature in Lima, Peru at San Marcos University, and has been living in the United States since 2003. He lives in Miami, FL. Salinas is committed to his own personal development, and to spreading the word about the vision and mission of the Mankind Project .

Creating Candor: blog post by Alain Hunkins

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Editor's Note: by Gonzalo Salinas
The Oxford Dictionary defines the word candor like this:

candor

Syllabification: (can·dor)
Pronunciation: /ˈkandər, -ˌdôr/
noun : The quality of being open and honest in expression; frankness:

a man of refreshing candor

I just found another way to explain that word: In this family story, simple and tender, Alain Hunkins brings a new meaning to that word and how to apply it on our daily lives. I hope it brings a smile.

If I speak up candidly, it'll be a career limiting move.

I can't tell you the number of times I've heard this phrase in organizations.

On the surface, it seems ridiculous. How could honesty sabotage your career?

But this belief doesn't come out of the blue. It comes from experience.

If you spoke up in the past and got dinged for it, you won't do it again.

So you don't speak up.

Don't rock the boat.

How often have you heard that phrase at work? As if the “waters” to navigate today's hyper-changing economy were calm.

Psychologist, Paul Ekman, author of Why Kids Lie reports that the #1 reason that children (of every age) lie is to avoid punishment.

Adult employees aren't much different. If you're afraid of punishment on the job, you're more likely to lie, or at the very least, withhold the truth.

And when you withhold information in a knowledge worker industry, you sabotage success. 怎么样? By supporting a low trust, status quo seeking culture.

So what can you do as a leader to create a culture that supports open, honest dialogue?

Click on the following link to read the rest:

Creating Candor; Pioneer Leadership Blog

阿兰胡金斯导致个人和职业发展培训,为个人,团队和组织。 在过去的二十年里,阿兰促进了千余组,从高风险的青年到财富500强企业高管。 他的动作之间的教育,艺术,不以营利为目的,政府和企业的世界。 Alain sharpened his facilitation skills as an Educational Consultant in New York City, developing programs on many subjects, including Conflict Resolution, Networking, Customer Service, Communication, and Leadership.

阿兰获得了文学学士学位,从阿默斯特学院和他的大师美术威斯康星大学/密尔沃基专业剧场训练课程学位。 He is a certified Leadership Challenge & MBTI facilitator, as well as a certified co-leader for ManKind Project International, whose mission is to help men lead missions of service in their families, communities, and workplaces. 阿兰完成了新战士训练的冒险在1995年。

I'm a weak man.

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by Brooks H.

I'm a weak man.

I'm not strong enough to live up to this _warrior_ shit
24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, 160 years a life.

lord knows I try.

Just can't do it all the time.

Sometimes I just want to run away and hide.

Curl up into a little ball and tell the world to fuck off.

Scream 'NO' into the face of any asshole that wants me to do ONE MORE FUCKING THING!

help in ONE MORE FUCKING WAY. No way, FUCK OFF!

and I feel bad about it.

feel guilty that I'm not strong enough.

feel guilty at the mistakes I make being irresponsible, self-indulgent, un-conscious, un-truthful, withholding,

un-feeling.

and then, when it gets too big,

I realize that I _am_ feeling …

feeling sad.

and as I let myself feel that, I begin to think about my I-Group,
and what they would say if I brought this into a circle.

I imagine the number of raised hands of men I know that have fallen in these same ways

I can feel the smile starting on my face as I begin to feel again, what it means to be human, and fallible,

and supported.

and know that this is all it takes to keep going on,

to keep watching my behavior, and changing some habits,

to keep getting better.

......

and I take a breath.

and another,

and the smile begins to warm the cold places and I am grateful.

and into that gratitude comes the feeling of being blessed by this community.

Some warriors do get bloody. Their brothers help them up.

Thank you men for being in my life,

It's time to get on with my day.

peace and blessings,

布鲁克斯

Brooks H. completed the New Warrior Training Adventure in June of 1999, at Clara Barton Camp in Central Massachusetts. He is a member of Men On The Loose I-Group, a ManKind Project Men's Group meeting outside Boston on a weekly basis. He lives in Arlington, MA.

Wisdom Bought and Sold – 25¢

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by Craig 'Snake' Bloomstrand

A Day at the Park

A Day at the Park

I've been writing about Wisdom recently and decided to do some field research.

I made two cardboard signs -

智慧
Bought and Sold
25¢

My friend Alan and I drove to the lake intending to buy or sell wisdom for a quarter a dose. We headed for a bench next to the walking path, strategically placed our signs for best visibility and got right to work.

Two young women stopped before we'd even settled. One held a 14 month old baby and the other obviously a soon to be mom.

“You're selling wisdom?” One asked. “What a great idea.”

“Well actually we're buying and selling wisdom.” I responded.

“I'll take some,” the expectant mother said, “How does it work?”
She rummaged through her purse looking for a quarter.

“First we have to agree on a definition,” I explained, “Then we can decide what type of wisdom you'd like to purchase.

“Ok,” she agreed, what is the definition?

I've been studying various published definitions and concocted my own hybrid from what I've read.

Wisdom is the ability to learn from life experience and use it to shape the future for the good of all.

I shared my definition along with my unexpected discovery that the difference between knowledge and wisdom seems to be embedded in the last few words.
“For the good of all.”

The two women accepted my definition commenting they never thought about the difference and agreed for the good of all did indeed fit. “Why are you doing this?” they asked.

“We believe the world could use a little more wisdom. We decided offering a clear definition and assigning a dollar (Quarter) value, we'd encourage people to value wisdom and use it consciously in their daily lives.” I explained.

“Why here at the lake?” the woman holding the baby asked, “Shouldn't you be in Washington selling wisdom?” I laughed replying, “this is our first day out. We thought it would be wise to start at the grassroots before stepping onto the national stage. We figured only very wise people would be walking around the lake on a sunny Tuesday afternoon.

The expectant mother suddenly piped up, “I have some wisdom.”

“Great,” I encouraged, “Lets have it.”

“Never be too quick to judge other people,” she offered adding, “I'm quick to judge people based on what they wear or how they look. My husband is much better at withholding his judgments until he gets to know people better. He's a more reliable judge of people than I am.”

“Never be too quick to judge other people,” she repeated.

“It fits the definition,” I acknowledged, “Something you learned that could shape the future and certainly for the good of all.”

She seemed very pleased with herself and refused the quarter I offered saying, “No, I'd rather trade, now you give me some wisdom.”

“What flavor of wisdom?” I asked. She paused for a moment considering my question. I noticed her hand slowly caressing her pregnant belly.

“How about children? She asked, do you have any wisdom about raising children?

I raised two children who are now about the same age as these young women. When it comes to childrearing I'm no master but I am experienced and I have learned a lot through the years. I offered up the first thing that came into my mind.

“You can never love a child too much. Spend as much time as you can simply loving your child, you and your child will be forever grateful.”

We agreed we'd made a good trade of wisdom, said our goodbyes and the young mothers continued on their walk. I watched as they walked away, two women filled with the special beauty motherhood bestows.

We did encounter the skeptics, cynics, and the joggers determined to complete one more mile and far too driven to stop and take a moment. I'm grateful for those who did stop. Although no money changed hands today we did go home with our pockets full of wisdom. I imagine we sparked lively dinner conversations last night. 我希望如此。 People have collected a lot of wisdom yet are often shy or hesitant about expressing it. We will continue to hit the streets with our signs. Look for us and stay tuned.

- Snake

EDITOR'S NOTE: Follow the ' Wisdom – 25¢ ' Adventure on their Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Wisdom-25/207834646061043

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Craig “Snake” Bloomstrand is a Certified Leader in the ManKind Project, and a self-described 'Social Adventurer.' He is a founding member of the Minnesota MKP Community.

A Long Lost Letter From Your Innate Creative Self

Category: Men and Mission , Opinion
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By Gonzalo Salinas

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Time to wake up?

On www.highexistence.com , I found this article about creativity written by Stephanie Kaitlyn Torres, aka Satori, a great blogger, traveler, and photographer. I think it's amazing.

How many times have I put aside my creative self just to fit into the social conventions? How long has my creative self been sleeping? On this “Letter from your Creative Self,” I hope you find what I found, a very interesting voice, speaking some truth. Click on the link below to read the article:

A Long Lost Letter From Your Innate Creative Self

Enjoy, and don't forget to comment.

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Gonzalo Salinas is the MKP Journal assistant Editor for the ManKind Project USA, a nonprofit mentoring and training organization that offers powerful opportunities for men's personal growth at any stage of life. Salinas studied Literature in Lima, Peru at San Marcos University, and has been living in the United States since 2003. He lives in Miami, FL, and is committed to his development with the organization and the dissemination of the message of the Mankind Project.

Waiting for the Blessing of My Father

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By Gonzalo Salinas

In October it will be ten years since I've seen my father.

I remember clearly the last time I saw him. We were at the National Airport in Lima.

Let me back-track. The flight to Miami was at 8 pm. For international flights, you are supposed to check in three hours in advance or risk missing the flight.

I was at home, waiting for my father to say goodbye at 6 pm. Still a fifteen minute drive away from the airport. I was late and pissed off. It was the same story. Waiting for my father. Putting all my expectations as a kid on that man. The architect. The eloquent speaker. The storyteller. Great talk but limited results. And yet I still never lost hope of seeing him awaken.

Twenty three years of my life waiting. Waiting for him to stand up and take action; for my brothers Victor and Fernando, for my Sister Mariola and my mother Soledad. And there I was; about to leave Peru, and I was still waiting.

Peter Putnam, a writer and ManKind Project supporter, in his extraordinary book : “The Song of Father-Son: Men in Search of The Blessing,” writes that a man craves the blessing of the Father more than anything else in the world.

“We crave the blessing of our father. Our father whoever he is. Wherever he's been, hugging us close and saying these simple magical words: Son, I'm proud of you . You have all you need to be a strong, loving man.”

Later, Putnam emphasizes that his entire book, and his entire life, are about that hug and those words.

And there it is. My whole life I was always craving the blessing of my father. And to give the blessing, he needed to show up.

In October 2003 I didn't know that what I wanted was my father's blessing. I was feeling the same familiar feelings of disappointment, anger, and frustration that I felt many times towards him. My life in Peru was about to come to an end. I was about to start a new life in a new country where I couldn't speak a word of the language. I was longing for something from him … waiting for him to come and save me.

He arrived at 6:30 pm. I was furious. I wanted to scream at him and blame him for whatever unpleasant things were happening in my life.

He came pretending like nothing was wrong … and I screamed,

“Dad, I had to be at the airport at 5!!!”

He reacted like he usually did; serene, almost as if he wasn't involved.

He said, “I'm sorry.”

I've heard that I'm sorry so many times.

We went to the airport. As soon as we arrived, my brother, who was waiting there, told me that the flight was delayed two hours …

Four other friends were at the airport to say goodbye. A friend of mine brought me chocolates made by his mom, another friend asked me if I had some soles (the Peruvian currency) “You won't need it in the US” he said. Despite my anger, I gave him like thirty bucks in Peruvian soles.

Everyone was pretending that this was another get together, the usual frivolous conversation; girls, soccer, cars.

I was begging deep inside for my father to call me aside … to say something meaningful.

Boarding begins. I start saying goodbye to my friends and family. At the time I thought I was leaving for only two or three years. It's now ten years without seeing my father. I saved the last goodbye for Him, (Him with capital H). It was very simple goodbye. A brief hug and a kiss on my forehead.

“Behave,” he said.

Throughout the years I have carried a lot of resentment towards my father. I blamed him for many things. I've always thought about how he could do better on this or that area. It's been ten years. Now, after my New Warrior Training Adventure, and ongoing work in my men's I-group, I notice that I didn't have to look at my father, but at myself.

Looking back, I see that he did the best he could with what he had, from where he was. If he didn't do better, it was simply because he didn't know any better. Maybe he was also craving the blessing of his father. Men's work, for me, has included learning to forgive. Forgiveness for my father. Forgiveness for myself. I didn't know what I needed, and I didn't know how to ask for it. He didn't know how to give what I could never ask for, the blessing of a Father.

Only after I forgave, I accomplished something that I thought it was impossible: I have learned to love my father. Just saying it give me a sense of freedom: I love my Father. Yes, I love Him and I can't wait to see him again. To look into his eyes and hug him. Not only as the man who gave me life, but as my brother warrior that he is, doing the best he can with what he is given.

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Gonzalo Salinas is the MKP Journal assistant Editor for the ManKind Project USA, a nonprofit mentoring and training organization that offers powerful opportunities for men's personal growth at any stage of life. Salinas studied Literature in Lima, Peru at San Marcos University, and has been living in the United States since 2003. He lives in Miami, FL, and is committed to his development with the organization and the dissemination of the message of the Mankind Project.

True Voice Process – A Conversation with Alan Little

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由百胜霍奇森

Alan Little

Alan Little

As has been said … necessity is often the mother of invention. 艾伦没有想到他解决了问题,然后这一切开始崩溃。 In some new ways, it still is. But the slippery slope from 'I've got this all figured out,' to 'What the heck is going on!?' 发生在不同的方式对不同的人。 在艾伦的情况下,帮助他以清晰的时刻,引起了到达“真正的语音系统。”

我跟艾伦在八月左右他的系统,并花了几个小时步行通过真实的声音处理的工作簿。 我很高兴我做到了。 In a few hours I added new language and some new tools to my personal growth tool-box, and came away with more clarity about what I value deeply and what I won't tolerate in my life.

Alan completed the New Warrior Training Adventure in 2007.

Check out the interview, and if you would like to learn more about the “True Voice System,” check out Alan's web site .
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百胜霍奇森是通信和营销总监人类工程美国,一个非盈利性的指导和培训机构,提供了强大的机会,在人生的任何阶段,男性的个人成长。 百胜接受了他的荣誉学士学位,从美国马萨诸塞大学阿默斯特分校,完成2年设计课程的康奈尔大学之后。 他一直在帮助公司和个人设计的,他们希望看到在世界15年的变化。 他是一个专用的丈夫。

Rolling in the Tides of Ash

Category: Poetry
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by Ryan Keaton

Rolling in the Tides of Ash

A speck of gold
In a sea of shadows
Rolling in the tides of ash
It's getting late and I am tired

I step outside myself
Only for a moment
And in that moment
I am free

Free to laugh
To smile
Free to cry
Or breathe deeply
Free to be myself
And it doesn't hurt

And suddenly a whisper
A doubtful wind
Sweeps across my eyes
I fall to the ground
Knees to the Earth

There is a light that glows
Buried deep beneath
Memories of salted tears
And broken glass
There is a light that glows
It is small but I can see it

It is familiar
It has a face; a name
It has wants and needs
Hopes and dreams
A voice that wants to speak
And a longing to be free

And suddenly
I am afraid -
I am afraid of me

A speck of gold
In a sea of shadows
Rolling in the tides of ash

Original writing by Ryan Keaton, a ManKind Project member in the greater Washington DC Community.

Sublime and the Drugs

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By Gonzalo Salinas

On May 25 th 1996, Bud Gaugh, drummer for the Californian band Sublime, reported to the police that his friend Brad, leader of the band, had disappeared. After trying to call him ten times he stopped because it kept going directly to voicemail. Nobody had any information.

It had been a wild night: they played at a festival in San Francisco and after searching without any results, Bud returned to the hotel where the band had stayed the previous night. The manager opened the room that was supposedly empty and both found a somber scene: Bradley James Nowell was kneeling on the floor with half his body on the bed. On the bed was a puddle of vomit and Bud thought that after the concert Brad had gotten drunk and passed out before even being able to get in bed.

When they moved him, a more serious picture emerged. Next to him were needles, a lighter, and a small bag with white powder. Bud brought his face to Nowell's chest, confirming that his heart was not beating. The police statement declared that Bradley James Nowell, 28 years old, died from a heroin overdose that stopped his heart. He could have been saved but nobody was present to help him in that lonely hotel room.

Two months after his death, the album they had been working on for the past year was released. Then came the avalanche of success. For several months, they were ranked first in the Billboard Rock charts, they made the rotation on MTV, won gold and multiplatinum records, and Rolling Stone magazine awarded Sublime's album as the best of 1997 thanks to hits like Santeria and What I Got.

Bradley Nowell left an important legacy, influencing singers like Ben Harper, John Mayer, Jason Mraz, and Jack Johnson. He also left behind an 11-month old orphan, a wife, a band, and a Dalmatian. He never enjoyed his fame or wealth. He made bad decisions and the heroin ultimately stopped his heart. Brad Nowell Brad Nowell was perhaps a reminder to us all of the consequences of these excesses and where they lead us.

Today we live in a world where mind-altering substances – and we're not just talking about drugs – often dictate our choices. It's not 'over there,' and it's not 'them.' 这是我们。 It's people just like you and me.

It is common for people to live with some sort of addiction, be it hard drugs, soft drugs, or even legal drugs such as alcohol and tobacco. The frenetic rhythm of our society has created other addictions as well, many not yet officially recognized; coffee, video-games, media, pornography.

Today, when debates are held in Uruguay (as well as in numerous state houses across the USA) to decide the legalization of marijuana, people on both sides are writing articles, granting interviews, and opining left and right on a subject that needs to be honestly faced in the entire western hemisphere. If the senate ratifies the law approved by the chamber of legislators, Uruguay will have taken the first step that will serve as an example for Latin America. Not so much to decide whether we are for or against the matter, but as a statement that actions are being taken on a cancer that is having a profound impact on our society. The drug economy, as noted by Moises Naim in his book, “ Illicit: How Smugglers, Traffickers, and Copycats are Hijacking the Global Economy ,” doubled from 1990 to 2002, without calculating the parallel powers it creates, the mafias and the cost that the ensuing crime has on governments.

Being for or against decriminalization, the “war on drugs” is a war that was lost at the beginning, and our action is needed now. Many of us and our fellow beings live in a state where we need a substance to survive and “bear” life. How do we get back to a healthy balance point? Where is the emotional health of our society standing? Do we fill in the gaps in our spirit with addictive substances or compulsive behaviors to forget reality?

Many of us, in our daily activities, are using alternatives that bring us closer to sanity or the elevation of the spirit; yoga, exercise, meditation, 'clean' food, and appropriate amounts of rest that balance out the frenetic pace that our work requires. But this is far from the norm in our culture. We have arrived at an alarming moment.

Maybe it is time to consider that everyone has a personal responsibility in creating a healthy society. It begins with our own emotional sanity that will lead to a collective sanity. We can search for that sanity together, or we can keep running. And it will continue to cost us. When some substance or addiction that allows us to carry on with our lives slams into reality, when we have our own personal version of Bradley James Nowell's story in our families.

Click here to watch the video Santeria by Sublime

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Gonzalo Salinas is the MKP Journal assistant Editor for the ManKind Project USA, a nonprofit mentoring and training organization that offers powerful opportunities for men's personal growth at any stage of life. Salinas studied Literature in Lima, Peru at San Marcos University, and has been living in the United States since 2003. He lives in Miami, FL, and is committed to his development with the organization and the dissemination of the message of the Mankind Project.

为什么男人不能得到帮助?

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