I was a husky child

June 20, 2010 · Leave a Comment
Category: 2010 June - Mental Health 

by Peter B. Perkins

A husky child, that was me.  Ample.  Hefty.  Beefy.

In that by-gone time, children were a non-descript, average-size.  On the other hand, I was conspicuous, distinct. My separation from the preponderance of my classmates — indelible, clear-as-a-bell, plain as white bread, obvious as a raisin in oatmeal — was stitched into the waistband of my dungarees. There lived the word that defined so much of my childhood: “Husky.”

Raising children with emotional intelligence

June 21, 2009 · Leave a Comment
Category: Fatherhood, Men and Parenting 

by Harvey Deutschendorf

OtherKindOfSmart 2Raising children with a healthy degree of self regard is critical. I was raised in a family where there was a steady diet of anger, shaming and put downs, coming from both my father and brother. I’ve since passed through many years of struggle to learn what it takes to have positive self regard. Since I never gained it from my family, I had to find a way to give it to myself. Let me share with you two incidents that reveal some of the lessons I’ve learned the hard way.