The law of commitment

September 22, 2010 · Leave a Comment
Category: 2010 September - Men and Power 

by Roy Biancalana

Imagine your life three years from now. If you’re like me, that’s a fairly easy thing to do. Most of us know what we’d like to attract, create or manifest in our lives. It’s the “how” part that trips us up. We know where we want to go, but we’re not sure how to get there.

My reverse mid-life crisis

September 22, 2009 · Leave a Comment
Category: 2009 September - Life Changes 

by Roy Biancalana

The most life-changing moment of my life occurred when I realized that nothing needed to be changed.

I call this realization “my reverse mid-life crisis” because it is the opposite of what typically happens to men. Usually, when a man reaches middle-age, he becomes dissatisfied with his professional path and/or his partner, then he makes changes to find “it.”My life has been the exact opposite of that pattern. Ever since I was a kid, I have been dissatisfied with my life and chasing the illusive “it.”

Three keys for fathers wanting to build a conflict-free relationship with an ex-wife

June 21, 2009 · 2 Comments
Category: Men and Relationship 

by Roy Biancalana

If you listen to the mainstream media talk about divorced dads, you would think most of us, at best, are distant and disengaged, or at worst, dangerous dead-beats. Most divorced dads I know love their kids and want the best for them.

Sure, there are men who abandon or even abuse their children, but most of us want to do everything within our power to ensure their complete well-being. To that end, although we no longer live with their mothers, we strive to be a consistent presence in their lives, not because we should, but because we authentically want to see them flourish and be happy.