Why Women Leave Their Husbands
Sep10

Why Women Leave Their Husbands

This is for all those men who think their marriage is just fine… Divorce statistics hover between 50% and 73% (from first to third marriages). But, did you know that women are more likely than men to initiate divorce? Michael Rosenfeld, an associate professor of sociology at Stanford University, examined data from Stanford’s 2009-2015 “How Couples Meet and Stay Together” project, a nationally representative longitudinal study of...

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“Wifely Duty” and Why So Many Married Women Eventually Prefer No Sex
Feb22

“Wifely Duty” and Why So Many Married Women Eventually Prefer No Sex

– – – See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World – – – Guys, I have bad news for you. You know the joke “If you want to have sex, don’t get married!”? Well, it’s largely true. And it gets worse. According to an analysis of U.S. Census data, 36% of women living with a same-sex romantic partner in their 40s had been married to a man at some point; among...

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In The Event Of A Loss Of Cabin Pressure
Sep23

In The Event Of A Loss Of Cabin Pressure

I was born in 1958, part of a generation where many were raised in accordance with Dr. Benjamin Spock’s book, “Baby And Child Care,” often by parents who didn’t have a similar upbringing to which they could refer for any kind of comparative frame of reference. As a result, at least if my practice is any indication, […]

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What Is Commitment, Really?
Sep09

What Is Commitment, Really?

We live in a disposable culture, addicted to constant stimulation, new thrills, and instant gratification. In that kind of model, with all the blends of media encouragement to keep it up, and the pressures of trying to keep up with life, where is your relationship fitting in?  Is it falling prey at all to “Hamster-itis” […]

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Is Your Relationship Sufficient?
Jul03

Is Your Relationship Sufficient?

Do you feel your relationship is sufficient? Do you even have a sense of what that would mean, look like, or feel like? If you’re not feeling happy in your relationship, what do you feel is missing? How do you want your partner to change to be able to feel more like you have the […]

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