Gender Differences: Women love by sentiment. Men love by action.

March 20, 2010 · Category: 2010 March - Men and Love 

by Steve Norcross

Women give and receive love as sentiment. Men give and receive love as action.

Already I’m in trouble. I have made a sweeping generalization with many exceptions. In this time of discovering that men and women are more alike than different, and in this day of a blurring of the lines that formerly defined the gender roles, I may be politically incorrect to describe inherent differences between the sexes.

The four loves of my life

March 20, 2010 · Category: 2010 March - Men and Love 

by Joe Glassman

For me, love is devotion, promise, interaction, giving, and risking. High risk; high reward.

The obvious themes for love in my life seem to be self growth, forgiveness, risk taking, and never giving up. My father always said, “Tomorrow is another day.” What he meant, I think, was that another day offers new opportunities to reach out and to try.

Here are four areas of my life where I try to love.

From darkness I approach; a poem

March 20, 2010 · Category: 2010 March - Men and Love, Poetry 

by Devon Strong

As the seasons change at Equinox, it lasts the winters night, from darkness I approach.
As the cold of frost feathered windows, from darkness I approach.
As snowy footprints under star sparkled sky, from darkness I approach.
It is time for changing or renewing the spirit of flesh, from darkness I approach.

Heart Opening; a poem

March 20, 2010 · Category: 2010 March - Men and Love, Poetry 

by Paul Goldman

I opened my heart and found
you comfortably resting inside,
as if you had always been waiting
for the right time when I would
find you.

Had I but known you were here within,
I would have rushed ahead, skipped a few
steps necessary to finally commune
with you.

Surely as nightfall turns to daylight, I have
followed the specific guidance I was given.
Encoded perfectly were the instructions written
in a language that until now would have been
indecipherable.

Men living with heart

March 20, 2010 · Category: 2010 March - Men and Love 

by Daniel Doty

A few months ago, I was talking to a close friend about my work with men and its implications for society.  The conversation became heated, and she made the following assertion: “Masculinity is slippery.”

What she meant is that due to societal and historical implications, we now must tiptoe around the topic of masculinity. She meant that being a man has become too complex, too undefined, and too inseparable from a negative historical inflection.